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Why our Most Difficult Moments Require the Most Self-Care

August 8, 2016

Self Care

“It’s not selfish to love yourself, take care of yourself, and to make your happiness a priority. It’s necessary. ” – Mandy Hale

When’s the last time you did something simply for the fun of it? If it’s been a while, don’t fret; many of us—myself included—find it surprisingly easy to forgo having fun. With all the responsibilities in our lives, making time for play can feel like a “nice-to-have” but ultimately unnecessary thing.

But reflecting on one of the harder moments in my life, I’ve come to understand that fun has a fundamental role in self-care—having fun keeps us emotionally resilient, playful, and feeling positive. It is in our most challenging moments especially, therefore, when we most need to make time for fun and play.

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Why Letting Go of Perfectionism is a Requisite for Greater Joy

July 16, 2016

let go of perfectionism

I’ll admit it. I can be a perfectionist.

It’s true, there is no better feeling to me than when I feel like I’ve attained what I consider to be perfect work (whatever that means). In these moments I feel—much to my chagrin admitting it—a sense of superiority and pride. I feel impervious to any kind of criticism and a deep satisfaction for what I’ve accomplished.

Of course, however, I’m fooling myself. “Perfection” doesn’t exist in any real sense. It is a hazy, vague, abstract concept—the world is much too subjective to possibly have a universally accepted idea of perfection. Much more often it is used to describe a hypothetical, ideal situation or used as a thought experiment. You know, like “In a perfect world, eating Taco Bell wouldn’t give me life-threatening diarrhea.” (We can all dream, can’t we?)

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Hi, I'm Brandon, and welcome to Experiments in Joy! Sometimes life gets messy, and it takes a little trial and error to discover what we need to live our most joyful lives. EiJ is all about sharing knowledge, practices, and thought-provoking questions that you can apply to your life to help you live your best life--for you.

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